Roxanne on the road
Roxanne on the road: Argentinians
I just have to talk about Argentinians a bit. They are very social, friendly, family-oriented fun-loving people. OK: maybe I do not really know since I stayed only a few weeks. But that is sure the way it looked. People were so nice to me. I was offered help, addresses, assistance with Spanish translations, and even given photos of seat-mates who travelled next to me for a few towns . . . . The cab-drivers were great! But I was especially amused at the sight of Argentinian family gatherings. These tended to be big, loud, boistrous, and late.
Late: that is the unique point . . . One hardly dares enter an Argentinian restaurant betore 9:00 p.m. And that is an embarrassment! After some number of days I was trained to never dine before 10:00p.m. I am not talking about Saturdays . . . those are lively nights which begin even later! The typical Argentinian diner might venture into a restaurant about 10:00 on a Tuesday or a Thursday, but this hour would become 11:00 or later on a week-end. In fact, cities are pretty lively at all hours on the week-ends.
I once noticed families dining around me late on a Saturday . . at 11:20 a young couple walked in with their one year old . Altho the waiters offered a high chair, this child was far too lively to be sequestered in that kind of trap. And I do not mean that he was grumpy! This kid was in prime time and had the parents jumping all over, following his antics. Just as I was thinking how odd this sight would be in the USA, in came a more typical large family - at least 3 generations worth, including several babies. By now the hour was approaching mid-night. But Grandpa and Grandma were taking everyone out to dinner and all were in high spirits; babies, toddlers, young couples, kids.
Children who run around a bit fit right into the nice restaurants of Argentina. Nobody would even make them feel bad or cause their parents to squirm. Kids belong! This is not a philosophy heard from right-wing parties; in Argentina, it is simply the way people live. And even at all those late hours I cannot remember heairng any baby cry . . . My question as to why was resolved by a bus seat-mate on a later jouney. He boarded our vey hot bus with a cute 3 year old at about 2:00 p.m. on a Friday afternoon. This sweet little boy immediately fell asleep in Dad's arms (and was spared the vision of a hair-raising trip at the hands of our demented driver who thought he owned the oncoming lane!). Anyway, when I commented on the little guy's sweet disposition to dad, he explained that the poor boy had been forced to get up so early to catch the bus!!!!!! (2:00 p.m.) The very next night, Mike and I attempted to conform to local norms and remain awake for a free music festival which began at midnight every evening in the large central plaza of Mendoza . . . We gave up at about 1:00a.m. and headed for our hotel, wandering through adjacent plazas with playgound equipment - which was in use because parents do take their kids out to teeter-totters and swings in the wee hours of the morning!
